"What am I missing?" "Why have I still to achieve my goal?" "Why is success eluding me?"
Recent LinkedIn updates had me applying Landscaping Your life (LYL) to goal setting and their achievement. I therefore thought that I'd explore the subject more deeply here, to see what other light could be shed on; the potential causes for lack of progress towards achieving our goals; and answering the above questions.
LYL is a tool I developed over 20 years ago, and uses landscapes as metaphors for our lives, and helps us unravel challenges we're facing. That is, LYL assumes nature and its landscapes contain the same patterns as aspects of our lives, thus enabling us to see the solutions contained within the landscape, rather than what's not clear from the daily noise of our lives.
As with any metaphorical exploration, this post is going to make more sense if you apply it to a real life situation rather than read it theoretically. With that in mind, please think of a goal that you've yet to achieve, that you'd like some clarity on about what might be stopping you making progress.
Now, put that situation to the back of your mind as you read this post.
In this example, I'm assuming that we're at A and want to get to B, and progress is made via the route we take to get from A to B.
Which suggests the first task is to understand where A and B are. And why you want to either leave A, or get to B. What will B give you that you don't have in A. Perhaps if you're making no progress it's because A has things B doesn't have?
Remember to leave the real situation at the back of your mind - don't wonder just yet how these suggestions translate into real life.
Assuming that's all as easy as it sounds, then the next step is to identify a route. In this example we're being told that one route is 13 minutes slower, and yet I know it meets a key criteria for me of taking the scenic route via Moffat.
Which might mean that unless criteria are changed, we realise B is unachievable, resulting in us reassessing our destination and a third destination of E being identified. Even if that's only an over night location before proceeding to B the next day.
Once we know the criteria for route selection, there's all sorts of apps and maps that can help us plot the best/optimal route.
Although be careful not to jump to a conclusion that something can't be done if you're using the wrong app for the journey you want to take.
Even your choice of map needs to include both A & B, and be sufficiently detailed to help determine the specific route.
Of course, a great route is of no use if we're not making progress along it ie action is also needed.
Sometimes it's this initial first step that is what's missing.
On some LYL coaching sessions I might ask people to demonstrated walking their route in the landscape. As they do this, sometimes the barrier to them achieving this goal becomes evident, and can be explored either via the landscape or more logically.
For example: they may leave A, and get so far long the route and then come rushing back to A. We can then explore the reason for the hold of A over them, or lack of effective route etc.
Or they may get distracted by C and realise they don't really want to go to B, or need to release the hold C has over them. (which reminds me of this vlog about turning a corner.)
The concept behind this LYL process is to explore the metaphor for as long as you can - no tangent is a bad tangent. It's simply a tangent that may provide the insight needed to help you get back on track. I'd go so far as to say follow the hunches and tangents - it's likely they're the nudges from your subconscious about where the solution lies.
Once the metaphor, landscape and tangents have been exhausted it's only then that we can revisit the original goal, and identify what steps we may wish to take in order to have finally turned that corner.
For example, suggestions might include:
- Making B closer to A
- Understanding journeys can have detours
- Accepting B may not be the final destination
- Considering the resources needed to get to B
- Exploring more about the benefits of getting to B
- Finding a new mode of transport
Which might translate to:
- Finding an interim goal you can achieve more easily
- Understanding you may get distracted, and that may add not detract from the experience
- Accepting that progress towards the goal may help you realise a new more empowering goal, that lack of movement will never help you to identify
- Consider the resources needed to achieve your goal, and identify plans to obtain these
- Explore your motivation for wanting this goal, can you make it even more inspiring?
- This may mean finding other people to help you to achieve the goal
Yes, we could have listed these solutions without the metaphor - and yet often I and my clients have found the difference that makes the difference will be found via the metaphor.
What do you notice about your original goal? What action can you take to help get back on track? Do let me know how you get on, or if you have any questions, in comments below.
Always open to speaking to those wishing to explore how LYL may help them or their team to achieve and even exceed their goals firstname.lastname@example.org +44 (0)7770 538159.
Landscaping Your Life to get back on track
Other LYL posts that may help in plotting a course from A to B include:
- Do you need to test the water - or is that all you've been doing?
- Do you simply need to see the wood for the trees?
- Or stop going around in circles?
- Or need to get out of your comfort universe?
You may also like this more logical exploration of goal setting and achievement from my Purchasing Coach blog.